Is your boss or supervisor setting you up to be fired? Here's what to do when the manager is out to get you.
Cara has worked for the software company for over eight years. She has a four year degree, two certifications, and is very knowledgeable about her craft. She makes more than $60,000 per year, is well-respected by her co-workers, and is a model employee.
With a career profile and inner-office relationships like hers, Cara should be pretty happy at work, but her on-the-job excellence and undeniable potential are both overshadowed by the anxiety she feels each day before she goes to work.
"I cry on the expressway at least once a week while I'm on my way to work," the young programmer admitted while talking with me over coffee one Saturday. "I think my boss is out to get me."
I almost labeled Cara's fear irrational and her delivery melodramatic until she shared what it's like to work for Angela K., her boss at the software company.
"I know my stuff, but according to Angela, I can't seem to do anything right. I'm always being handed a written warning about something ridiculous... I think she's trying to get rid of me, and in this economy-- that scares me to death." The written warnings aren't all she's up against. Angela has been increasing Cara's work load for months, forcing her to work twenty hours of overtime or more to stay current.
Cara's last performance review was tainted by the various meritless written warnings issued by Angela. One of those warnings was for missing multiple deadlines, a problem that is likely to have arisen from the overwhelming amount of work she's being asked to do in a short amount of time. Cara describes the warnings as a paper trail that will likely be the undoing of her employment at the company.
What to Do When the Boss is After You
So what happens to employees who are being pushed out of their jobs by manic managers? Is there any recourse for people like Cara who clearly are being targeted by their supervisors? Here's the advice I gave to the perplexed programmer.
Step 1. Determine if the manager's complaints have any merit. Cara has a job to do, but so does Angela. If you're in Cara's position, ask yourself if there's any possibility that you might be over-reacting to your manager's behavior. This step is first and most important because if your performance really isn't up to par, you won't have a leg to stand on when you attempt to dispute the boss' behavior. If you know your performance is up to par, move to step two.
Step 2. Talk to your manager. I acknowledge that in extreme situations, the prospect of carrying out this step could be very frightening. However, you will look like a mature, professional, concerned employee if you simply ask your manager to give you some constructive feedback on what you'll need to do to avoid further problems. If the manager's behavior is truly unwarranted, he or she won't have a good answer for you. However, if your manager offers reasonable feedback, work hard to improve. If you're trying to improve, but the manager still appears to be targeting you, move to the next step.
Step 3. Go to Human Resources. Some managers are wise enough to know when an employee is developing a case in his own favor-- which means that the manager may simply back off after realizing that his behavior could come back to bite him. But when a manager is continuing to press the non-existent envelope, and when it becomes obvious that the boss is harassing an employee, it becomes appropriate to involve HR.
If this is the case for you, go to your Human Resources department and explain that your manager is creating a hostile work environment, and that you believe he or she is attempting to terminate you without merit. If necessary, type and sign a statement, and request that the HR employee place it in your file. This request is within your rights as an employee. When this meeting is over, HR will review the manager's conduct with his or her superior.
Step 4. Consider a job change. If steps one, two, and three are unsuccessful, it may become necessary for you to change departments or companies. Don't rule this out. Your peace of mind is more important than your loyalty to your current company.
Cara's situation is not uncommon. If you share her plight, remember that you're not powerless. You have rights, resources, and options. Good luck to you.
Read more...


